With many thanks to 'Michael Bully' who reminded me that I had not yet researched or posted A.E.G. Michael has a wonderful website dedicated to the Sea Poetry of the First World War and has recently started a website about the poetry of the Second World War:
Alexandra
studied at Girton College, Cambridge. On
28th April 1894, Alexandra married Frederick William Grantham, the
second son of Sir William Grantham JP of Eaton Square London. They were married at St. George’s church in
Hannover Square, London. Alexandra and
Frederick had the following children:
Hugo
Frederick born 1895
Alexander
William George born 1899Eric Howard, born and died 1901
And Godfrey Harry born 1911.
Frederick,
who was educated at Harrow and Trinity College, Cambridge, had joined the
Volunteers while at university. Frederick
was called to the Bar, Inner Temple in 1895.
In 1893 he joined the Post Office Rifles as a Reserve Officer and in
1899 the Militia of the Royal Munster Fusiliers. He served in South Africa during the Boer War
and was awarded The Queen’s Medal in 1902.
As a Reserve
Officer, Frederick volunteered for active service on 6th August 1914.
He attained the rank of Captain and was posted to France with the Royal Munster
Fusiliers on 22nd September 1914.
He was killed on 9th May 1915 near Richbourg l’Avoue but was
initially reported as wounded and missing, which must have been very hard for
Alexandra, of German birth and with three sons, one of whom was also fighting
in France - Hugo Frederick joined the 1st Battalion of the 44th
Foot Essex Regiment as a 2nd Lieutenant and was killed on 28th
June 1915 fighting in Gallipoli. He was
mentioned in despatches. Hugo was
buried at Twelve Tree Copse Cemetery in Gallipoli.
Godfrey was
killed during the Second World War in June 1942.
Alexander
went on to become a Governor of Hong Kong and the Hong Kong Fire Service named
a fireboat in his honour.
Alexandra’s
WW1 collection “Mater dolorosa” was published in 1915 by Heinemann and
dedicated to Hugo Frederick Grantham.
Sources: Find my Past, Free BMD and Catherine W.
Reilly “English Poetry of the First World War A Bibliography” (St Martin’s
Press, New York, 1978)
Alexandra’s
collection “Per Aspera ad Astra“, published in 1907 is available here https://archive.org/stream/perasperaastraco00gran/perasperaastraco00gran_djvu.txt
Further books
published by Alexandra are listed here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Books-Alexandra-EtheldredGrantham/s?ie=UTF8&page=1&rh=n%3A266239%2Cp_27%3AAlexandra%20Etheldred%20Grantham